What if your resolutions focused on being yourself rather than changing yourself?

If you know me, you’d probably also know I don’t like New Year’s resolutions and won’t do them. I don’t see this as a moral imperative, so if you love them, that’s great. But I’ve noticed that when I’ve tried to make resolutions the old-fashioned way, I generally find them restrictive and unmotivating. I crave space to explore ideas, outcomes, and possi…